
Bringing a man to orgasm is a relatively simple thing. A
nice joke claimed once that all a woman has to do to please
a man is to show up naked and bring beer. Although this is a
simplification of the male sexuality, it serves to show that
it doesn't take much for a man to reach sexual pleasure.
Pleasing a woman, however, is quite something else, as any
man can confirm. Men tend to rely on a fast and none too
subtle approach.
Women like to see things unfolding a bit differently. So I
think the men need a little helping hand to get the entire
thing right, which is why I picked a couple of sex positions
that are fun, fun, fun for the ladies. The first position we
are going to discuss is the good old missionary style. I
know that the first thing that comes to mind when the words
"missionary position" are encountered is "BORING!".
However, this parochial technique is delightfully suited for
her orgasm because the man's pubic mound is rubbing against
the woman's clitoris. This will help the woman reach orgasm
quicker, especially if the savvy man puts a pillow under the
lady's shapely bottom and aims for the G-spot. Even though
missionary doesn't sound like a lot of fun, it can be the
very thing for those smart enough to make the most of it.
Another good position for the woman is doggy style. This
position is extremely arousing for men because they have the
sight of a sexy ass to feast their eyes upon and they can
also control the movement very well. Plus, they can reach
around and play with the woman's clitoris, which is as close
as it gets to a surefire way to get the lady over the edge.
The direct stimulation of the clitoris and the deep
penetration afforded by the doggy style position are
excellent for fast and intense orgasms, especially if you're
into quickies. Just make sure you keep a finger on her
clitoris. And this article would not be complete with the
undisputed leader of positions designed to enhance the
woman's pleasure: her on top.
This is a major turn on for both men and women, although for
different reasons. Men like the position because they can
lay back and watch the show, while the woman is doing all
the work. Moreover, men get to have a great view of their
ladies and to play with their breasts if they feel like
moving their hands. The ladies like the position because it
gives them full control.
They can set the pace of sex and make sure their clitoris is
rubbing hard against the man's pubic area each time she
sinks down. It's heaven for both man and woman. And a nice
variation of the "her on top" position can be tried in a
chair. Get a chair without arms and which is sturdy enough
to support your combined weight and the subsequent rocking.
Sit on the chair and let the lady straddle you.
The curve of your stomach and torso will make it impossible
for her clitoris not to rub on your pubic area. And if that
rubbing is not intense enough, don't be shy, give the lady a
hand. If you can support her with just one hand, use the
other to play with her clitoris and make her orgasm like
crazy. For even more fun, turn her around and try to find
the G-spot with your penis. This should be a lot of fun.
It's not that hard to give your lady orgasms. The trick is
to get her hot with sexy foreplay and then to have sex in a
position that would stimulate both her clitoris and vagina.
If she's not enjoying herself enough, then step in and take
control of the situation. Use your fingers or your penis to
target the clitoris directly and make her squeal with
pleasure. And you'll see that she's going to love you for
this.