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| Woman Sex Toys
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Well, watching a woman please another woman is up there
too I guess. In today's world of fast food, debit cards, it isn't so
surprising that a woman enjoys pleasing herself. This is a fast high
tech world. Woman are working as many hours as men these days. They
don't have the time to go out and search for the guy who will lay them
once and ruin their lives. There are many reasons why a woman would want
to masturbate. Just like there are many reasons why you masturbate. It
doesn't take much thought to figure it out. Most men don't understand
the female body.
The clitoris has to be stimulated for maximum pleasure. The clitoris is
much like the head of a penis. Could you imagine having sex with only
your shaft? That wouldn't make for very enjoyable sex.
A few hundred years ago it was common for a woman who had a strong need
to go to a doctor and have him masturbate her. This was done because it
was their belief that a horny woman could lead to bad things. It wasn't
healthy to have sex more than once per week.
These doctors usually spent up to 50% of their time masturbating women.
That had to be some job. Could you imagine getting paid to masturbate
women? I would work overtime every chance I got.
This shows something bigger though. It shows that most men don't know
how to please a woman. I'm not saying that sex once a week is enough,
but I think you know what I am saying. If you lived back in this era and
your woman had to go to the doctor to have an orgasm, you are doing
something wrong.
Being that most men can't please a woman, a vibrator isn't a bad choice.
Actually their doctor will tell them to use a vibrator. It is good
because they can control the orgasm better with one. This comes in
'handy' if your partner can't please you.
Some women don't want the hassle of finding a mate. They use sex toys in
the same way that men use escorts. They figure that it isn't worth their
time to find a mate, so why bother? The sex toy is easier and quicker
than what a man can do. They can make themselves have an orgasm in half
the time a man can give them one.
Another aspect is that they don't want the risk of disease. This might
be more prevalent than you might think. Regardless of how good the sex
is, it isn't worth dying over. This is a valid reason why any man or
woman would masturbate. No one wants to run to their grave. Most prefer
to waltz.
Some women don't want the risk of having a baby. With all the asshole
men who don't take care of their children, I don't blame them one bit
for this one. In today's world, it is hard enough to make a living for
yourself, let alone several mouths to feed. Masturbation helps take away
any risk of this and she still gets to enjoy a great orgasm.
One woman told me that a vibrator is everything a man isn't. A vibrator
is always ready to go. No need to wait for it to get an erection. It
won't leave the house dirty and want you to clean up after it. It won't
cheat on you. It won't expect after you are done to make it something to
eat. While I had a good chuckle at what she had to say, it is the truth.
Here are three things that men fear about vibrators.
-Female masturbation is wrong. I don't understand how men feel this way,
but they do. They jack off, but it is wrong for their women to do so.
-She will become addicted to it. Men fear the introduction of anything
other than their penis when it comes to the bedroom. Don't fear the
vibrator, love it. Enjoy watching her orgasm like there is no tomorrow.
-She will have no need for a real penis. This happens, but not as much
as men fear. Nothing will replace the touch of another human being.
Unless their vibrators can cuddle them after they are done, it won't
replace you.
Understanding that women have sexual needs is important like
understanding you have sexual needs. There is no need to run from it. A
horny woman isn't a slut, but just a horny woman. If you have a woman
who is horny all the time, don't get bent out of shape. Most men would
love to have a woman like yours.
There is another aspect to this discussion. Sometimes we just want to
relax and enjoy the pleasure of an orgasm alone. There is nothing wrong
with this. Sometimes we just need time to relax and be alone. This is a
great way to get the stresses of the day off of our shoulders and relax.
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| Good Vibrations
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Of all the toys and devices used to give sexual
pleasure, the vibrator is the most Common. When you want to add a little
variety to your encounters, or you want something that can stimulate
faster, you can't beat a good vibrator. They're also perfect if the
woman you're with has trouble reaching orgasm through other methods, and
are very effective for masturbation. Vibrators come in several common
forms, but the ones generally used for pleasure are either the wand
style or the dildo style. Wands have long handles that usually have
on-off and speed controls on them...
They have a pad at the end that vibrates, and can be put against your
penis, your girlfriend's clitoris, or a variety of other interesting
places. These vibrators usually plug into the wall, and some have
extremely powerful motors.
-The common dildo shaped vibrator is shaped somewhat like a penis, and
is between seven and ten inches long. Most vibrators of this type are
battery operated. The can be inserted into the vagina, or held in place
to stimulate the clitoris, nipples, penis or testicles. Many dildo
shaped vibrators come with sleeves that slip over the vibrator itself.
-They have many different textures and can change the thickness of the
vibrator.
-Some of these vibrators also have a collar that rotates, and some come
with special side attachments to stimulate the anus or clitoris while
being inserted inside the vagina.
These can leave you with an extra hand available for other activities.
-Some vibrators also come with attachments. These attachments can cause
entirely different sensations. You can find attachments that are made
especially for anal penetration, or for vaginal. There are attachments
with different textures for extra sensation. There are special
attachments made to stimulate the prostate gland. There are even
attachments made to penetrate the vagina with a little piece made to
simultaneously stimulate the clit.
If the woman you're with is uncomfortable trying toys for the first
time, a vibrator is an excellent choice because she can enjoy
considerable stimulation without any penetration. Also most vibrators
have more than one speed, so if a higher level is too high for her,
perhaps a slower one will be perfect.
If you find the noise a vibrator makes to be distracting, you can wrap
the handle in a towel or blanket. As long as it is outside of the body.
Be sure not to immerse a vibrator in water, and to always use
lubrication to insert anything into any opening in the body.
They now make remote control vibrators that you can change the speed of
without touching the actual vibrator. They even make small remote
control vibrators that you can insert inside your partner or place over
her clitoris by means of a special panty. With these vibrators, you can
control the vibrator from across the table or across the room. You can
make your partner come without even touching her. The possibility for
games with these are nearly endless.
You can add new games and dimensions to your lovemaking with a vibrator,
and make your masturbation a whole new experience. I recommend you try
them if you're looking for a way to put a little spice in your sex life. |
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