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Watching Porn
Women hate to see their men stare at other women. That is why most of us
guys have to look at porn in secret. They get too jealous at us looking
at other women. So, we jack off in private and they get mad at that too.
They get mad at the idea that we are having any kind of pleasure that
doesn't involve them. Sometimes I have wondered if this is just another
attempt to control us. On the other hand, I know that it is. When you
turn on the television, you see a ton of different programming. You can
watch soaps, sports, talk shows, anything you can imagine. This is true
with porn as well.
These tend to be the type of movies that you fast forward to the sex
scenes.
If your woman is skeptical about porn, I would go with one of these
types of movies. She will enjoy the content of it, while you enjoy the
sex scenes. Sometimes in life you have to give to receive.
I think some women don't like porn because it makes them feel uneasy
about themselves. They see you going ape shit about a woman who has
perfect breasts and a nice round ass. They see your penis get hard super
fast looking at this woman comp aired to when you are in bed with her.
I think men would get upset if women were the same way. Luckily, women
aren't as much into porn as we are. Or we would all sound like a pussy
and complain like our girlfriends do.
If your woman likes any kind of porn, great. Enjoy it with her. It will
help you enjoy your sex life more. If she doesn't like porn, try and see
if she has a fetish she would like to explore. Maybe she would like to
see some guys with big dicks get it on or something. That isn't as bad
as it sounds. If she is into something like guys with really big dicks,
just makes sure you find some that are having sex with women you find
attractive. This way you both win.
There is an increasing market for female porn viewers. I have seen many
women go to the adult bookstore in my area to buy things. They all might
not be buying porn movies, but the fact that they are going into such a
place tends to show they are becoming more open.
I used to know a woman who loved watching gay porn. Before you spit out
your morning coffee, think about it. We enjoy seeing two women go at it,
why wouldn't women enjoy watching gay men have sex? I know that seeing
two gay men have sex can curdle the milk in your morning coffee and make
your penis more limp than a worm on a sidewalk, but think about it. If
you want her to watch those hot lesbians go at it, why not give and take
a little. If she gets turned on, maybe she will want you to go down on
her while she watches it. If that is the case, you won't have to watch
any of it. All you will be focusing on will be her canal du stink.
Porn can be a great way to spice up your sex life. On the other hand, it
can ruin you. There are plenty of people in this world who are addicted
to porn. That's right, they are addicted to it like a drug. I don't know
if they shake if they haven't wacked it to a porn movie lately, but I
think you get the drift.
If you find that you are addicted to porn or can become addicted to it,
I would suggest that you stay away from it. It will do nothing but harm
you in the long run. There are support groups for people who are
addicted to porn. I know that the whole idea of being addicted to porn
seems weird. It is like someone becoming addicted to hot chocolate. How
could anyone become addicted to such a great thing?
Like most things when it comes to sexuality, I wouldn't force her to
enjoy your love of porn. That will do nothing but make her hate it more
in the long run. Instead, introduce it slowly and see how she responds.
I would go with some soft core stuff. I wouldn't rush right into a gang
bang movie or a bukakke movie right away. That will turn her off in a
second.
If she strongly opposes you looking at porn, well, look at it while she
isn't there. Make sure that your computer doesn't leave any tracks
behind that you have been looking at porn. Make sure if you are watching
a porn tape, that you take the tape out of the VCR. Nothing would piss
her off more than to turn on the VCR thinking that she is going to watch
her favorite soap that she taped while she was away, only to find two
big breasted women enjoying a bit of lesbianism.
Like most things in life, moderation is the key. Don't over due it. If
she sees that you want to watch porn every time you have sex, she will
think that she can't arouse you. If that happens, watch out. You won't
get laid for a long, long time. Then you will have to look at porn when
you are horny!
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