|If you’ve ever felt embarrassed by your lack of skills
in the bedroom, or worse, been too shy to try, here are five tips to
help you learn how to excel performing oral sex on a man. It doesn’t
matter if you have never done it before, or tried and felt
uncomfortable. As long as you are willing to learn, you will get better
quickly. Believe me! The only prerequisites are a good attitude and a
willingness to try anything.
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|Trick 1 – Never-ending Saliva
The trick to good oral sex is an everlasting supply of wet. Saliva is
one of many things that increase its flow when you are aroused, so lots
of saliva is part of the job. It is an unconscious message to your lover
that you are enjoying yourself, and the ability to control the flow is a
benefit when performing oral sex. When first starting out, you might not
be very aroused at all, but more intent on what you are doing. Don’t
worry – being aroused while giving head is not required by you, but is
definitely required by your man!
Always have a glass of water handy, but something sweet like wine is
better. Wine stimulates saliva flow, whereas water just wets your mouth.
The saliva created by something sweet is slightly stickier and slimier.
It feels nicer on skin. Don’t worry about stopping to take a sip; he
will appreciate the added lube. The point is to never have a dry tongue
or mouth, always keep it wet.
Running your tongue over already-wet-bits will also stimulate flow, so
the more you dribble the more you dribble, if you know what I mean!
||Trick 2 – Start with His Testicles
Lay him on his back somewhere soft, and spread his legs slightly. Start
out by licking his testicles first. The reason for this is simple – hair
retains moisture. But, this can prove to be a problem at first, because
it sucks it all from your mouth! But, persevere. Cover his balls with as
much saliva as you can, and take your time.
He is sure to love this attention to his balls, and will be even more
delighted when you do move to other areas, with your good base of
wetness to aid your explorations. Lick however you want, long licks or
short fluttery licks, or small sucks. Ask him which he likes the best,
if he doesn’t tell you! The space between his testicles and anus (the
perineum) is very sensitive, so make sure not to neglect this part.
Once his testicles are sopping wet, (and your face will probably be
quite wet too!) you can start to use your hand.
||Trick 3 – Using Your Hand to Help You
It doesn’t all have to be done with your mouth, and a well placed hand
can be absolute magic as well. Make sure your hand isn’t cold, and get a
big gob of saliva and spit it into your hand (quietly!). This can be
done easily by getting the saliva on the end of your tongue then sort of
licking it onto your hand. No spitting involved!
With your nails facing his bum, slide your hand very gently down his
balls and perineum. This gives your mouth a rest, but keeps him
stimulated. Slide your hand around his balls, holding them gently,
covering them, tickling them, slide your hand over all your saliva and
spread it on your 'canvas'. When you feel like it, lick his balls again
and get ready to move onto his, by now very hard, penis. Use your hand
anytime you need a rest but want to keep up the momentum during any sex
||Trick 4 – The Teasing Lick
There are many ways to perform oral sex, but we will only deal with one
technique here. This involves slowly and wetly licking in an upwards
motion, with a full tongue (as much as you can without it going dry or
hurting your mouth!) all the way from the testicles to the tip of the
penis, bit by bit. Lick all the way around the penis, this will mean
moving positions to get better angles. Get all of it. Every little inch,
and go over it three times.
Lick his entire penis except the head. After you have covered all areas,
use long sweeping motions, keeping the penis as wet as you can, sweeping
upwards from the base of the penis to almost the head. This will tease
him beyond belief, and feel delicious to him. It is this anticipation of
what’s to come that will excite him as much as how good it feels.
As you lick up, start going a little bit further each time, until you
are licking the head. It will be dry, because you haven’t touched it
yet. There may be some pre-cum on the top. This is good for you because
it provides you with much needed food for your salivary glands! Use this
natural lube for spreading around the head of his cock with your tongue.
Now you are ready to suck!
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||Trick 5 – The Suck and The Hand and The Lick
Now is crunch time. He will be very aroused by now, so you take full
advantage of his weakness and exploit it mercilessly. Now, take your
tongue off his penis and put your hand back onto his balls. Your saliva
will now be cold, but don’t worry! Your hand will be warm.
Now, making sure your mouth is nice and wet, and his penis is nice and
wet, hold the base of his penis in one hand to hold it steady and
straight. Close your mouth over the head of his penis, and swirl your
tongue around, finding all the ridges and running your tongue up and
down and around the head. Create some suction, but don’t really suck at
this point, just find a good level of suction where you can swirl your
tongue around and still create saliva.
Then, slowly, moving your head from side to side (like a washing machine
agitator) work your way down his penis, sucking gently until you go down
as far as you can go. Then come back up. Then go back down. Then, using
your tongue in swirling motions, suck his penis – move up and down at
whatever pace you like, and whatever pace you think he will like.
Don’t be tricked by thinking guys all want it hard and fast all the
time, though they certainly like this, slow and sensuous is also high on
their desires list. Raising your eyes and looking at him while you do
this can also be a big turn on for him, and you. Try it!
Once you have a rhythm built up, you can start to stroke his balls with
your free hand. With the hand that is holding his penis, you can start
to move this a little bit as well, by loosely making a fist around his
penis, and moving it up and down the shaft. You can coincide this with
your sucks to create a more interesting rhythm.
When your mouth gets sore, as it inevitably will, start licking his
balls and penis again (unless he has exploded in your mouth already) and
start back at square one. A point to remember is that any rhythm will
almost always eventually trigger an orgasm in a man. Keep your rhythm
steady and get faster and your job is done. And well done, you are well
on your way to being a fantastic oral sexpert!
Talk to your lover, ask him what he likes and try to do it. Feel free to
play around, and tell your man that you haven’t had much practice and
would like to investigate. He will love the attention and might return
It might be a good idea, if it bothers you, to discuss whether he will
come in your mouth, or outside. He shouldn’t mind, though he would
probably prefer inside, and for you to swallow as if you have never
tasted anything so delicious in your entire life! Reality is somewhat
different, so don’t be afraid to say no if you don’t want his goo in
your mouth first time round.
Remember, enjoy yourself!
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